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havng been one to have made mistakes …..hang in there my friend. I stlll make mistakes ……….. and trust me …….. kids are the first to forgive them….. so whether wrong or right ….. you hang tight to what you’ve discovered or found……
my son ….. and I hope my inherited girls ……….. will see my mistakes as food for thought…..that I care ……. and that I am making an effort…….
maybe what i’ve said is out of line ……… considering what you’ve said ….. i apologize if that is true..
but point i’m trying to make ….and I know is true …….is that kid forgive quicker than any …… trust a true mistaker on that!!!
hang tough…..be a parent even though new …. and it seems like at times you shouldn’t…… good advice …. and I can’t say that very often. PLEASE TRUST ME ON THIS ……….and wouldn’t say it if I wasn’t THAT sure … .you be a parent. it’ll be really hard at times ….feel free to PM me about anything. i’ve done little right in llfe ……. but one thing is to raise a son that went from a promising baseball career ……. ( threw a no-hitter in little league …… which is hard to do …….. to leaving that to make his own band ….. won a few battle of bands btw ……. local…….. to going to college to become a radio- oligist …….however thats spelled… probably only thing i’ve ever done right…..
…….. seriously….. i got that part right …. and feel free and I hope you do …… to PM me about any questions concerning kids……. I have a feeling …… though can’t say for sure ….. that Lou … (Prof) ….can also give help in this direction …whether he admits it or not ..(sorry Lou…… but I know you can) ….. best of luck friend! it’ll be tough at times …..be best advice i can give …… and maybe I’m overstepping my bounds. ……. is always be a parent. never too late. worst thiing you can do is be a “best friend” ……….. or the such. almost can gurantee that!! Be support forl …. but never acceptable ….. always point them in the right direction …..friends are for support ….. parents are for …… pointing the right direction ……. that’s just how it works ……
i hope the best for you. ………… and think it will greatly work out that way ….* from some one that prob has no right making these suggestions …. but cares to make them anyway …..please understand not because I am trying to tell you how to llve life because if that is how you take it …..I have no right to make any suggestions because other than own biased (very) ….. I haven’t done much right than to raise what I consider a perfect kid…… and again …… I am biased about him (very) ….lol
wish you the best!
Congrats, thanks fantastic news
I cant imagine what it was like to have done what you did (then and now).. Were you scared when you tried to contact her? Or how did that work out?
It is so nice to know she had a good life right??? Thats the best news of it all I bet.
I am so happy for you and her and hope that what you share with each other becomes more than just a meeting of rejoined souls.
Wow that’s fantastic news Pat.
Good things happen to good people.Good luck
In time i’m sure it will feel like she never left your side
Heartiest congratulations!! Very nice that you shared such a wonderful nice with all of us.
Nandakishore
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Online Gambling WebsiteCongrats… my wife found her birth mom not to long ago after years of searching and it has been an awesome experience being a part of the rebuilding of a family… all the best to you and your daughter!!!
All I can say from our experience is take it nice and slow and learn to know each other one day at a time… at the end of it all blood is blood and family will win out!
God bless,
Shane
Hi!
I wanted to thank each and everyone of you, for sharing this with me, happiness is so much better when you can share!
Let me update a little, so much has taken place!!
We email each other pages and pages of letters each and everyday since we found each other…we are filling each other in on our lives, our likes and dislikes…etc..
I found out all about her adoption and how it came about from her MOM!!
Thats right, her mom has written me and thanked me for giving her such a beautiful daughter…[ tears are going now ] …she sounds like a wonderful woman, who i would of loved to have as my own mom..
She has two older brothers, and now she has two younger brothers from my family….and she feels sooo lucky!…the kids are getting to know each other also…and my sons are thrilled!
Her brothers have emailed me also, and this is starting to feel like a coming together of families…and thats everything i could hope for.
BB!….everything you said is very important to me. and i thank you for taking the time to talk to me…even though i have raised two boys, having a helping hand with advise and support is something a parent can you forever.
I congratulate you on your success as a DAD….But i would also like to say, that you are a SUCCESS as a PERSON also. To have so many people who love and respect you, is the telling sign of someone who has lived life right, regardless of past mistakes.Remember that.
Thank you Everyone. i will never forget the kind words and the true happiness i have felt from everyone here, and if anyone, and i mean anyone, is in the same situation that i was in and am now in…please do not hesitate to pm me….i would love to share my feelings and good and scary about finally finding your baby.
pat
Congratulations!
Sounds like a movie~
Congratulations on your wonderful news.
It’s a great joy after so many years.
My Heart goes out to you.May your Love grow each day.
B-T
I have a sister some where I hope in my life I can find her too.Good Luck BingoT!
Let me tell you how simple this ended up being..
My oldest son, has always wanted to find his sister…
So last week…He Googled her last name..[ my maiden name ]
And the third link down, was her name…her birthday..etc..i clicked the link and it took me to …adoption.com
in 2005, she filled out a profile looking for me….and it came up under a search of her name!!!
can you believe it!….that simple…??lll i am stunned. Thank god she made a profile, or i may not of found her!
But it kills me to know that 2 years went by, and i could of found her earlier!
So anything is possible…i wish you luck, and hope it comes out a wonderful for you as it has for me.
pat
Congrats, This is an awesome story! I am really glad everything worked out for you.
What an incredible story! I admit I have dropped some tears after reading it :tongue: Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Trip…. now you’ve made me teary-eyed.
seriously….. thank you so much..
well….gotta go …. find a shoulder….
but they’re happy tears.
*i know….I’m a ….emotional wreck.
but this time around ..its a good thing.
SO happy for your Trips..
*didn’t know about the other kids or I’d not have offered parent advice … thanks for not taking that the wrong way
LOL, I am crying right along with ya hun! lol
Ever word was sincerely ment. I read your posts, and they are always full of thought, heartfelt sincereity, and your opinion means something to everyone here, including me.
thanks for being you, and i just wish i could get to know you better.
Just remember, my lifes motto is….
Life sucks,….it you let it. Its never easy, especially for the good people, The bad ones, get all the breaks, for now….but we will get our break when it really matters.
Trip
