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You could always dress up in drag and go monitor his evening. :woo-hoo:
Then again, he seems to be a trustworthy person, you just have to to have faith in that trust he has earned.
thanks Axe,
ya your right.
actually its a violation of my probation to get caught in a place serving alcohol …. so if I do go and something happens … if i’m caught there I am in big big t rouble.
if not for that; ….. I’d be there for sure. Still not sure how i”ll play it but I keep thinking that I’ve got to get used to this….
Hi S,
ya he heard it from me but water off a ducks back.
and if there’s anybody who knows about being in the wrong place at the wrong time its me lol.
Lane doesn’t recognize that fact however ….and for a reason. I tried to keep that part of my life away from him. Now I recognize that was a mistake.
anyhow….. you didn’t answer …. are you going?
I’m quite frankly in a quandry. I know I have to let go …know if something happens and I’m recognized as being there …. I’m sunk. yet he’s the love of my life …. and so ….
all that said: I probably won’t go. I made him promise to call me once he’s out of there and safely on the way home . I guess that’s the best I can exepct.
S.
my reply to mom.
…sigh. going to be a long night.
anyhow .. thanks man.
Get any thought of going yourself out of your head. That’s definitely not the right answer in your case. Trust him to take care of himself, and just hang tight. Hope all is well.
Thanks Ken,
you’re right …as usual.
but I needed the push lol
thanks again.
S.
Show him your trust. It will cement your relationship.
If he does get in trouble, it will teach him what you know anyway, and he will still trust his dad.
…. thanks guys/Ladies.
I guess I knew all this but damn its hard not to just go be the protective father.
If something happens I’ll never forgive myself . lol. for anybody reading this that’s deciding on being parent …. I promise its all worth it. Just really hard at times …
BB1 I am going through all these things with my daughter now , she is 14 and I am used to her not wanting to go anywhere or do anything .Now suddenly she is wanting to go to movies and last week she told me she and her friends are going to a concert in Toronto next month , even though another parent is taking them I am so not ready for her to go anywhere in the big city.
I guess all we can do is teach them right from wrong while they are listening to us and pray.I dont worry about my kids , it is how every other kid is that bothers me.
I am sure you son will be fine ,we will be here if you are stressed out tonight
Hi all,
well he made it home safely.
THanks again for letting me blow off some worry.
turns out it was a battle of the bands thing. They advanced (God knows where that is going to lead)
Me, I stayed home and watched Rusty the rescue dog with my step-daughters lol.
quite a contrast from my old days
thanks again all.
