Well I know how this stuff does hurt and bother you Lou, I was a victim of this stuff yrs ago and I am sure Robin you remember this. I made the mistake of reading every day and playing into these cyber bully’s hands. I actually gave up a 14 yr friendship over it because she went to the dark evil side of forum gossiping and hating. I don’t miss her for a min and never realized the sort of person she really was but I tell you one thing it taught me that these types feed on responses of any kind. It isn’t because I am not your friend or don’t care about you that I don’t toss my self into the firing line more often but because in the end I am afraid they will feed off it and enjoy the drama, what they hate the most is to be ignored and that is what I try to do.
I have always tried to stay away from any forum drama after all this went down, I had personal info posted out pubic and stuff like that can really hurt my family. I have seen how vicious some of these nasty creatures are. If I can say my peace without throwing something at them I will but they are really starting to piss me off with the rumors now and when I am pissed I am better off shutting my mouth.
You need to take care of yourself and your health for your family, they need you around and what kind of life would your kids have without a dad? Mine would be much happier with theirs believe me. Your sick and need to care for yourself first and foremost. There is nothing really to worry about as you said there only a few flamers over there keeping that forum alive, it is a dead place and of no real use and believe me most of us affiliates know this why do you think we live at CAP 