Siouxee
I understand your situation completely .My homecare /attendant costs are $30,000 a year. If i had a ‘normal ‘ job i wouldnt be able to swing that either. And at 20 bux per hour it sometimes makes more sense for a spouse to stay home and care for the other.We went through all of that too.I would probably be in your situation if it was not for my Brother John creating something that I could do from home .John use to tell me we are either going to be rich or be in Jail LOL when he started flying to middle east and other parts of the world to buy things for our ebay store .
I would hope if you are making payments towards a debt they dont keep you hostage in your own country.