I don’t think anyone has any problem with helping newbies – after all that is what we do here day after day.
People are being used and abused by “friends/relatives” who think that there is no work involved and we should just put the pie on their plate and go get them a fork to eat it with.
That’s not how it works – there is work involved, and a lot of learning. We don’t even realize just how much we have learned until we try to tell someone else.