More,
I have known you for about 2 years or more, and let me say this, You are one of the nicest people i have met on the web. Your fathers loss. So people are ment to be parents and some aren’t. It is not you, its him. I probably does not know how to relate to women or girls, and that is from his upbringing. he has no idea what he has missed out on. A daughters love is wonderful, and special , especially with a dad, and you may have missed out on this with him, but i am positive that all that love was given to your mother instead. I know you had a beautiful relationship with her, and that is enough to fill any void you have from him. Losing both of your familys foundation so close together had to be horrible, but your mom and her mom must of been very close, and be at peace to know that they are together still!
I wish there was something i could say that would take away the pain that your fathers absence has given you, and the one thing i can think of is this.
It may be a blessing for you that he was not involved in your life. There would of been more disappointment and pain given you from a man who expected things that are not attainable. He sounds very selfish and i bet his son will growup to be a disappointment to him. Because he will be his own man, not a carbon copy of himself, which is what he wants.
Be happy you are who you are, a beautiful caring loving woman who had a wonderful relationship with the people who matter the most, the ones who loved you for who you are, and loved you unconditionally. The best love of all.
You are rich with love and a big heart, and if you want a sister, i am can fit that bill!!..lol…poor you! loll
Thank you for writing, and i am always just an email or phone call away, we can start are own special relationship, i also had a bad relationship with my father, sometimes i wish i never had one. so we have plenty to talk about.
love
pat