hey mate,
i really feel your pain as i’ve had and still have close people who have been on both ends of the spectrum. i would like to give reassurance that everything will be alright, as it is meant to be. you will get her back home but shouldn’t pursue in healing her unless she heals herself. otherwise you’ll fuck up your life in parallel with hers.
i had a case back in february where my g/f had a serious issue with alcohol consumption to the extent of neurosis. while i tried to help her out through it, as she obviously refused to oblige, i got myself down the drain too. without going into details, you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.
i know its hard to tell you not to kill yourself over it, but you gotta make sure you know the limits. choose your boundary, and when it’s too much, you must leave the person to it or throw her in the right direction…that’s my experience at least…
whatever might be the outcome, be strong!