Reply To: I need help !!!!

I wish I can help, but I’m in the same boat, my son was on drags I got him of the streets but he is so screwd up, he doesn’t get it that he has to a get a life. For ten years now I did everything for him in hope that he may change but I think I was dead wrong,he took it as a weakness pushing me around to a point that I last 55 lbs. Lost winter my wife and I where slipping with our coats on and the cell phone in my hands, we asked everywhere for help but the way the law is you can’t force any one to get help he has to ask for it, the problem is he doesn’t think is anything wrong with him, he was so bad at times yelling and screaming, breaking everything in the house that the police came many times and one time they took him to the hospital for mental evaluation a week later they charged him, that was last February, at that time I was so weak I had hard time standing up. Is sad thing to say I felt better then ever with my son in jail. I’m still trying to get him to understand that he needs help at times he admits that he does and other times he things that I’m a bad father.
What I’m trying to tell you is, you can’t force an adult to do anything, they have to do it on there on, with your help is going to be easier for them. GOOD LUCK