MS isn’t necessarily all that bad – I have a close friend who has lived with it for 40some years. She travels and lives a normal life – just takes some meds and drops the occasional plate. So she’s made it a hobby to go to fleamarkets and pick up strange plates – you should look in her cupboards, lol. It’s a treasure trove.
I hope it turns out you are just fine… Re. your dad, so sad, it happens to all of us eventually. Just make sure he know that you remember x,y, and z that you did together, that sort of thing. Knowing that you are appreciated gives a lot of strength…
Keep us posted….