Yeah, there’s a way to fix this. Don’t contact us unsolicited. It would be much easier for us too to gain players if we sent emails out unsolicited, but this isn’t allowed so we have to find legitimate ways to get players.
My suggestion would be to talk on the message boards of all the major forums, and all the smaller forums. Don’t promote your brand, but rather talk knowledgably about the industry. Work on your payment processing so you accept deposits easily from US players. In return you will get major websites to start promoting you. When major websites start promoting you the middle range guys will see that and think, ‘hey, this program must be good’ and then they will start promoting you.
Spamming is not the answer, no matter how well you think it works. Imagine all the major portals you have turned off by using these techniques, now tell me, is it worth it?