Luigi – I accept your opinion, but dont agree.
Affiliate programs must contact you independently bcz thats the only way to expand and THE ONLY way to build the program’s reputation – like you mentioned in the 2nd paragraph.
If you dont engage the medium / smalll affiliates, and pay them a few times. The reputation never begins bcz no one speaks, and basically no one gets any experience..
You will NEVER sign up to a new program that no one has spoken X or Y about…
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There are ppl that run dozens of websites.. with dozens of contact pages / Email addresses.. + add to that, that in most companies that run strongly on the affiliate side, there are dozens of agents looking for these…They all reach the same person.. and he gets mad.. (for a good reason..).
Affiliates should help the agents to NOT contact them.. its more efficient than getting upset..
I guarantee, that no agent wanna waste his time on someone that will only reply F**U 
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if u have any idea on how to stop.. speak loud bro.
Thanks for the answer though :cappy: