I have a compulsive gambler in my family…he makes a very good income and owns nothing but a motorcycle and a television. His parents provide his vehicle, and he lives with his girlfriend who is left to starve or have the utilities turned off when he does not pay his half of the bills. This person is 50 years old! Everyone tries to help him, but he will always find a way to gamble. Just walking into a 7-Eleven opens up a world of lotteries! His addiction has progressed to unbelievable trouble with the IRS, lying to his loved ones, and even identity stealing in attempts to attain credit funds.
I do not feel at all guilty being a casino affiliate. Compulsive gamblers will find a way to gamble, even when well-meaning folks try to shield them. Guilt would be akin to a restaurant owner feeling guilty about contributing to obesity, or a lounge/liquor store owner feeling guilty for contributing to alchoholism. Everyone has to at some point be responsible for themselves, even the hopelessly addicted.
Gambling for most people is enjoyable entertainment, not unlike a good meal or a relaxing cocktail during time off. Concern for compulsive gamblers is kind but unrealistic pertaining to business. Give an addict an opportunity to help him/herself. Restaurants offer lo-cal items, lounges/liquor stores offer non-alcoholic beverages, and affiliates post links to Gamblers Anonymous.
I will bet (no pun intended) the gambling addiction percentages are very close to obesity and alcholism percentages, because addiction is addiction.
BonusGeek, I wish you well in your indeavor to get a handle on your gambling. You are courageous in your admission, and help others in your open discussion. I know that your struggle is every bit as difficult as trying to beat alcholism, and the mental anguish can be excruciating. Peace and goodwill to you!
…Andrea