Bodog is sort of a secret – the players there are really, really bad (for the time being), and more experienced players like to clean up off of them.
As far as how which poker rooms value their players, I would say Absolute is my #1. They are always sending reload bonuses, incentives and promotions to get their players to play and redeposit.
Party is the opposite – until competition started taking its toll on their revenues, they wouldn’t even offer reload bonuses. Party gets a big thumbs down in my book.