You hit the nail on the head Badabing and it’s just how I feel.
I have no idea why they want in to the private areas when they don’t bother to post in public. I thought some might be concerned about black balling, but who knows. We might let them in and they just lurk, then I would feel akward throwing them out again after granting access…
Are they nosy or do they really want to participate? That is the question….