Congratulations on your march commissions! Inspiring!
You’re right, I should spend more time updating the site, but I also have ‘homework’ for other things… and other plans… plus a 1 day a week job with extremely nice pay.
And about the backlinks, I hate doing it (even more checking them), but with my future english site it at least makes sense. For now, I can exchange links, but for most of the visitors (of my link partners) a dutch link adds no value.