You should be rewarded with the cross promotions, just not if they come in to a sister casino from another affiliate website. That affiliate worked hard to get his/her site ranked for the keywords that brought that potential player to his site, and if you wanted that player you need to do a better job at making them stick exclusively to your own site. Not expect the other affiliates to do all the selling, while you sit back and enjoy the commissions.
I have no problem with rewarding the first affiliate with cross promotions. But I will never agree with you that another affiliate should make money from my site. I just don’t think it is right. As a matter of fact I remember when I first came to this board, I asked you about Referback and you were kind enough to point out how they do things and this is why I never took them on. I just am not going to send a player to a casino where everyone is making money from my hard work except me. If a dime is made from a player that I send, I want my commisssion on it. I have earned it. Not you. You want the commission get them to come back to your site instead of shopping at mine.