Bernie,
in my prayers.
http://www.herbalhealer.com/essiac.html
… Here’s that link to the herbal tea. Don’t know if its all they claim, but I do know that a local doctor around here has been making it for his relatives (we’re related by marriage, so I know of this), for someone with breast cancer. *edited to add that if you do much research on all this, you will see why it has not been made more public, and also why you might guess my distant relative might be keeping it under hat for using this as an addition to traditional medicine as a healing possibility.
its too soon to say whether it will help or not.
We’ve also been making it for my grandfather who’s arthritis has him nearly immobile in the mornings and now he’s able to at least get out of bed.
I definitely think it’s worth a look, not only for yourself but for anyone who reads this and might know someone diagnosed with cancer, especially if its been diagnosed as terminal.
I very much hope this is helpful in some way. my heart goes out to you both.