Hi,
well without getting into another big arguement about all this; it was obvious that strong feelings were involved and to me; what it boiled down to was the fact that I thought I was there amongst friends.
And friends don’t put themselves in a position to dictate what or what not their friend says or does not say; or chooses to change or delete what they had said in the past. Especially in light of the fact that right or wrong, panicked or not; I would not have stopped a friend from doing what they felt they needed to do to protect themselves.
That friend gave me that advice as a courtesy, and it is only a simple return of same courtesy, to allow them to do with as they see fit; whatever it is they brought to the table.
and No; I don’t feel the group has a right to vote and decide what I do with my own words or posts.
*if what I said was so damn important in the first place, they should have been taking notes. 